How to raise a child independent personality, extraordinary, purposeful and holistic just? Education of child labour continuous and very complex. Having two sons eight and ten years old, I regularly look for different information on this topic.
All parents and educators know that a child learn best from someone else’s example. First and foremost, such as the parents themselves. That is, if the father says to the son: “My hands before eating”, and he comes home from work, don’t do this, no matter how much the baby is not scolded, he will always have a subconscious desire to do as a father. There is a conflict in the education – mismatch between requested and actual. And this disparity will lead to misunderstanding and resistance.
Of course, each family has their own ideas about parenting. But interesting to see what practices exist in education. Recently read the nine commandments of raising a child from the “Home encyclopedia”. It’s pretty interesting thoughts, I suggest you to pay attention to them.
9 commandments of raising a child. A note to parents
1. Don’t expect your child to be like you. Or – as you want. Education should help him not become you, and themselves.
2. Do not ask the child to pay for everything you do for him: you gave him life, how can he repay you? He will give life to another, one – third: this is an irreversible law of gratitude.
3. In the process of education don’t take it out on the child their grievances to old age is not bitter bread, because what you sow, so shall ascend. Continue reading
Couples where the woman is older than her husband for ten, twenty, even thirty years, are now not uncommon. «He was only twenty six and she was already over forty. He is still quite young, recently received the second higher education, does not work. It — Mature woman was already married, one child — complains to the mother of 26 – year-old boy. — she has it all — a business of their own apartment. Now she wants to take my son! Says he will live with her like Christ in his bosom. But what is their future? Neither happiness nor children!».
Couples where the wife is older than her husband more than ten years, are now not uncommon. Increasingly, one can observe the following: here you go near a woman and a man — whether the mother and son, or just acquaintances? Come closer — but no, love! Go hand in hand, eyes glowing with love…
Someone such pairs is called ironic smile, someone — sympathy, someone looks after: «Quite mad!», «Nothing good will!», «they Have it for long!». And they did it. She was born just a little earlier, but it later…
According to statistics, official marriages, in which young men choose a life partner senior yourself Continue reading
Thoughts about the health of the unborn child come along with pregnancy, when to change something already too late.
According to medical statistics in perfectly healthy young people the risk of giving birth to a defective child is 5%.
Worldwide doctors have long engaged in planned pregnancy. A couple that is preparing to conceive a child should undergo a full medical examination, to prevent possible problems in the future, and having a healthy baby .
An important step in planning a healthy child – determining chromosome set of the parents of the unborn child. This is a complete study of the blood of the parents in some countries it is also required, as the determination of blood group and rhesus factor.
A study of the chromosome set is the analysis for both parents, because the child receives half of the chromosomes from mom and half from dad. A perfectly healthy young people can be carriers of balanced chromosomal rearrangements themselves without even knowing it. But if the child receives unwanted rebuilding from one of the parents, the possible imbalance. In such a family the risk of having a child with chromosomal abnormality is 10-30%. But if a chromosomal rearrangement in the set of spouses identified in advance, perhaps Continue reading