Morning is the most difficult and challenging for the child. For each it is different. One child wakes up with pleasure, and parting with sleep
occurs instantly. Another long time can not Wake up. It is important
take into account the peculiarities of the physiological development of children.
You are full of worries about the coming day. Time inexorably dictates the tempo of conduct:
make Breakfast, clean up, talk, to remind you in time for
work – a thousand little things, conflicts, expectations. In this kaleidoscope Affairs and
dependencies – your child. To Wake, feed, look after
clothes, to send to school. You almost don’t realize their actions: all
long moved into a skill, a habit. What kind of habits? Did
your child involved in cooking Breakfast? Helped to clear the table? In
what kind of mood he goes to school? What was your reaction to your
last comment? What are your thoughts as you go to work?
Morning or charges you light spirituality, or ukrepliaet you in secret bitterness of resentment, a poignant question, a slight pain.
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Yes, someone will say that it is impossible to live and continually to rejoice, because in life a lot of problems and worries, and troubles. Well, if you take the reverse situation? There are people who constantly live without joy, with a stone heart, with a closed mind. They don’t know what is the joy of the soul and the joy of love . They are always dissatisfied with everything and every day find a reason to be unhappy even more. So why not live the other way around? Every day to find a reason for joy, to radiate gratitude and positivity. So you can live! And even need! The more you will radiate joy and pleasure, the more that will come into your life.
So how can you add to the life of joy? There are several ways.
Learning how to live and rejoice: five ways.
Method first. Don’t be afraid to dream and set goals to achieve their dreams.
When man ceases to dream, he simply ceases to live. He slips in everyday life and routine, losing the breadth of thinking. Life becomes full of reproaches, resentment, suffering and deprivation. The joy was gone, the days are getting similar to each other. The fact is that as soon as man ceases to dream, he immediately closes the road to great prospects and opportunities. Why successful Continue reading
Don’t be afraid to go to a psychologist or child psychiatrist, deal with him, which negatively affects your child, what is the real ground of his misfortunes. Maybe you have to listen to something not very flattering to your address; it may be that already requires special measures — children’s nervous system vulnerable, and reactions to trauma can be readily fixed. Be careful and attentive!
Be especially careful with is so loved by us by means of life’s hardships — irony.
A white lie or why children lie
Often the reason for consultation with a psychologist or therapist is the loss of trust in the relationship between parents and children. Parents complain: “the Child about what we are not telling, Julita and remained silent or simply lying. ”
From what the child is saved by a lie?
Why are we so afraid of child lie? So strive at all costs to eradicate this defect? When we first notice that the child deceives us? In that moment, when he is not obeyed us, or were outside the framework that we endorse the behavior.
To dissemble and tacking child has whenever these limits become too rigid and cramped.
In other words, the child is lying, when he wants to avoid punishment or censure, when Continue reading