All the time getting their hands in your mouth, chew collar blouse, mommy’s hair is wound on the handle…so small, and has already acquired habits which are useful and good will not name…
What this habit? To understand how it operates the mechanism, imagine this situation. You like to wear clothes with pockets and periodically to keep them in hand. Try to wear clothes without pockets. You will notice that during a certain period of time your hand will automatically reach for my pockets more than once. It was the habit! Definitely not crowned with success, your attempts will become more and more rare and will gradually disappear. But it will take time.
“Foundation” bad habits
The “Foundation” for the origin of habits and the development of stereotype behavior in kids actions become quite harmless. Typically, the first “germs” cause no alarm among parents and does not portend problems in the future.
For example, the baby is 4-5 months aggressively pulls the handle in his mouth, Continue reading
Summer, sun, green grass – all this and pulls on a walk, so dad, mom, grandparents take children and grandchildren and go for a walk. What could be better on a fine spring day and fresh air? And if you can still get a remarkable book?
Country Mom jointly with the publishing house Eksmo offers to participate in the contest “Mom, dad, I” and get in gift sets of three wonderful books. What do I need? just a place on any page of the contest up to three photos which will be a child with one or both parents (or grandmother, grandfather).
3 winners will receive the following sets of books from the publishing house Eksmo:
One of the books will be the new publishing house called “Educational shock”, the authors Bronson, Ashley Merryman. This book is a well-known American journalists turned many traditional views about the upbringing of children, their socialization and dealing with them. “Educational shock” brought the author international fame.
Millions of parents in different countries, after reading the book, it is admitted that many mistakes can be avoided if we move Continue reading
“And blade of grass and worthy of the great world in which he grows” — believes Rabindranath Tagore. Only the blade of grass and did not even think he is worthy and what is not, how to not think about it everything in nature – small and large. It does not measure yourself and growing yourself and growing, fulfilling its purpose. Probably self-esteem issues unique to humankind. Apparently, this is the fee for the mind, for the high ability to analyze, compare, draw subjective conclusions, to improve. Often to the detriment of the sense. The paradox in the pursuit of their significance, we lose their own importance. And this confusion begins in a person’s life very early, offensively early. Low self-esteem of a child is a topic for serious discussion and reflection, as well as a reason for hard work. Because all unresolved childhood issues do not disappear anywhere, they backpack, heavy or not, hanging on the shoulders of human life. Isn’t it better to remove this backpack as soon as possible?
Most interesting is that the children are never born with low self-esteem. They don’t assess myself, and just live, adapting to the world or trying to adapt the world to himself. To assess and compare start parents with a “good” submission standards Continue reading