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Different approaches in parenting

We educate our children and want them to grow up and such-that and such-that they didn’t make our mistakes, so he was happy. If you look in the dictionary, we see that « Education — it is a purposeful shaping of personality in order to prepare them to participate in public and cultural life in accordance with socio-cultural normative models» . In life education is usually called the impact that we had on the child, and its results.

Actually, even if our influence will be neither deliberate nor conscious, a person from our baby will still be formed. He will grow up like us. «the Child learns what he sees in his home». This law repeal will not be so, if we desire that our child didn’t inherit from us some of the features, you just need to get rid of them ourselves.

But now we will talk about purposeful and conscious education and the various approaches to it . After our success on the path of education is directly dependent on the approach, and accordingly, a method in raising children, we are choosing. And the approach depends on what the goals and objectives of education we set ourselves.

Why can’t something be explained to the child? Why he doesn’t listen and doesn’t listen? Continue reading

Children’s lies – a method of self-defense

Don’t be afraid to go to a psychologist or child psychiatrist, deal with him, which negatively affects your child, what is the real ground of his misfortunes. Maybe you have to listen to something not very flattering to your address; it may be that already requires special measures — children’s nervous system vulnerable, and reactions to trauma can be readily fixed. Be careful and attentive!

Be especially careful with is so loved by us by means of life’s hardships — irony.

A white lie or why children lie

Often the reason for consultation with a psychologist or therapist is the loss of trust in the relationship between parents and children. Parents complain: “the Child about what we are not telling, Julita and remained silent or simply lying. ”

From what the child is saved by a lie?

Why are we so afraid of child lie? So strive at all costs to eradicate this defect? When we first notice that the child deceives us? In that moment, when he is not obeyed us, or were outside the framework that we endorse the behavior.

To dissemble and tacking child has whenever these limits become too rigid and cramped.

In other words, the child is lying, when he wants to avoid punishment or censure, when Continue reading

Errors of family education

All parents raise their children to the best of my skill and understanding of life, rarely thinking about why, in certain situations, post­time so and not otherwise. In every family there are times when the behavior of a loved child puts adults in Tu­peak. And parents from time to time Sauveur­the culprit of the error.

Error first.

A promise not to love

Parents often complain that children are contesting any request. According to them, the offspring are doing it out of spite and to encourage them to common sense is meaningless. The threat here is also not valid. In such cases many people use a kind Kozyr­ing the card: “If you’re not going like I want, I won’t love you”. Od­however, this threat is usually quickly Zaba­is called. Children feel fake. Once cheated, parents can Nadal­th losing the trust of the child — he will perceive them as deceitful people. Ray­neck to say: «I’ll still Liu­to beat, but your behavior does not approve”.

Indifference

“Do what you want, I don’t care”, ” parents often say, tired of the whim of a son or daughter. They do not argue, not looking for arguments that don’t prove anything considered­Ty that there is no need Continue reading

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Different approaches in parenting
We educate our children and want them to grow up and such-that and such-that they didn't make our mistakes, so he was happy. If you look in the dictionary, we…

Continue reading →