How to raise a child independent personality, extraordinary, purposeful and holistic just? Education of child labour continuous and very complex. Having two sons eight and ten years old, I regularly look for different information on this topic.
All parents and educators know that a child learn best from someone else’s example. First and foremost, such as the parents themselves. That is, if the father says to the son: “My hands before eating”, and he comes home from work, don’t do this, no matter how much the baby is not scolded, he will always have a subconscious desire to do as a father. There is a conflict in the education – mismatch between requested and actual. And this disparity will lead to misunderstanding and resistance.
Of course, each family has their own ideas about parenting. But interesting to see what practices exist in education. Recently read the nine commandments of raising a child from the “Home encyclopedia”. It’s pretty interesting thoughts, I suggest you to pay attention to them.
9 commandments of raising a child. A note to parents
1. Don’t expect your child to be like you. Or – as you want. Education should help him not become you, and themselves.
2. Do not ask the child to pay for everything you do for him: you gave him life, how can he repay you? He will give life to another, one – third: this is an irreversible law of gratitude.
3. In the process of education don’t take it out on the child their grievances to old age is not bitter bread, because what you sow, so shall ascend. Continue reading
All parents raise their children to the best of my skill and understanding of life, rarely thinking about why, in certain situations, posttime so and not otherwise. In every family there are times when the behavior of a loved child puts adults in Tupeak. And parents from time to time Sauveurthe culprit of the error.
A promise not to love
Parents often complain that children are contesting any request. According to them, the offspring are doing it out of spite and to encourage them to common sense is meaningless. The threat here is also not valid. In such cases many people use a kind Kozyring the card: “If you’re not going like I want, I won’t love you”. Odhowever, this threat is usually quickly Zabais called. Children feel fake. Once cheated, parents can Nadalth losing the trust of the child — he will perceive them as deceitful people. Rayneck to say: «I’ll still Liuto beat, but your behavior does not approve”.
“Do what you want, I don’t care”, ” parents often say, tired of the whim of a son or daughter. They do not argue, not looking for arguments that don’t prove anything consideredTy that there is no need Continue reading
Beautiful and very lonely
I suddenly woke up and was horrified,
He’s a Mama’s syno-o-okay …”
Every girl at least once in a lifetime encounter with this problem. It’s not even the problem — it’s a huge OOPS!
Blame, unfortunately, in this “misunderstanding” is not only the boys but also their parents, and in particular, mother. Unfortunately or fortunately, I don’t know how to say! The honorary title of – ” sissy “, is closely combined with a negative character trait — boorishness.
Get this “the honorary title of a sissy” boys who grow up in single-parent families or the education of his son lay on the shoulders of mom and dad was uncomfortable (uncomfortable, because differently it is impossible to say, any normal man before you have kids, you should care not only about the financial support of his family, but also about the education of his child) to child-rearing.
Alternatively, the head of the family was a woman, so to say the General, and the man only agreed with all her whims.
Upbringing upbringing, and his mind and character must be present. So to shift the blame on the mother, too, is not correct.
How to distinguish Continue reading