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9 commandments of raising a child.

How to raise a child independent personality, extraordinary, purposeful and holistic just? Education of child labour continuous and very complex. Having two sons eight and ten years old, I regularly look for different information on this topic.

All parents and educators know that a child learn best from someone else’s example. First and foremost, such as the parents themselves. That is, if the father says to the son: “My hands before eating”, and he comes home from work, don’t do this, no matter how much the baby is not scolded, he will always have a subconscious desire to do as a father. There is a conflict in the education – mismatch between requested and actual. And this disparity will lead to misunderstanding and resistance.

Of course, each family has their own ideas about parenting. But interesting to see what practices exist in education. Recently read the nine commandments of raising a child from the “Home encyclopedia”. It’s pretty interesting thoughts, I suggest you to pay attention to them.

9 commandments of raising a child. A note to parents

1. Don’t expect your child to be like you. Or – as you want. Education should help him not become you, and themselves.

2. Do not ask the child to pay for everything you do for him: you gave him life, how can he repay you? He will give life to another, one – third: this is an irreversible law of gratitude.

3. In the process of education don’t take it out on the child their grievances to old age is not bitter bread, because what you sow, so shall ascend. Continue reading

Errors of family education

All parents raise their children to the best of my skill and understanding of life, rarely thinking about why, in certain situations, post­time so and not otherwise. In every family there are times when the behavior of a loved child puts adults in Tu­peak. And parents from time to time Sauveur­the culprit of the error.

Error first.

A promise not to love

Parents often complain that children are contesting any request. According to them, the offspring are doing it out of spite and to encourage them to common sense is meaningless. The threat here is also not valid. In such cases many people use a kind Kozyr­ing the card: “If you’re not going like I want, I won’t love you”. Od­however, this threat is usually quickly Zaba­is called. Children feel fake. Once cheated, parents can Nadal­th losing the trust of the child — he will perceive them as deceitful people. Ray­neck to say: «I’ll still Liu­to beat, but your behavior does not approve”.

Indifference

“Do what you want, I don’t care”, ” parents often say, tired of the whim of a son or daughter. They do not argue, not looking for arguments that don’t prove anything considered­Ty that there is no need Continue reading

Why do young men choose older women

Couples where the woman is older than her husband for ten, twenty, even thirty years, are now not uncommon. «He was only twenty six and she was already over forty. He is still quite young, recently received the second higher education, does not work. It — Mature woman was already married, one child — complains to the mother of 26 – year-old boy. — she has it all — a business of their own apartment. Now she wants to take my son! Says he will live with her like Christ in his bosom. But what is their future? Neither happiness nor children!».

Couples where the wife is older than her husband more than ten years, are now not uncommon. Increasingly, one can observe the following: here you go near a woman and a man — whether the mother and son, or just acquaintances? Come closer — but no, love! Go hand in hand, eyes glowing with love…

Someone such pairs is called ironic smile, someone — sympathy, someone looks after: «Quite mad!», «Nothing good will!», «they Have it for long!». And they did it. She was born just a little earlier, but it later…

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