Raising a child is a complicated matter. You are convinced of all young parents who dreamed of an obedient child. Kids don’t listen, yells, runs away. What to do? How to raise a child properly? What is the secret of raising a child without punishment – happy little man?
How parents not to sacrifice your life and not to give up their own interests? How to raise the child on his feet, not at the expense of yourself and your life plans? How to educate and not to spoil? Where is the boundary between parental love and acquiescence, connivance? As no punishment to get the son or daughter of obedience? These nuances of raising a child in childhood, the rules of communication with preschool children and school children we now discuss.
The secrets of proper upbringing of children by parents without punishment and scream
1. Install leadership
In the relationship between mother and child should not be ambiguity. Clearly the leader in the relationship with the child should be the mother . and the child – slave and reaching for his mother – and not Vice versa!
If the vast majority of cases, the baby is 3-4 years impose their desires parents, he is spoilt . And before it’s too late, parents should try to correct Continue reading
Yes, someone will say that it is impossible to live and continually to rejoice, because in life a lot of problems and worries, and troubles. Well, if you take the reverse situation? There are people who constantly live without joy, with a stone heart, with a closed mind. They don’t know what is the joy of the soul and the joy of love . They are always dissatisfied with everything and every day find a reason to be unhappy even more. So why not live the other way around? Every day to find a reason for joy, to radiate gratitude and positivity. So you can live! And even need! The more you will radiate joy and pleasure, the more that will come into your life.
So how can you add to the life of joy? There are several ways.
Learning how to live and rejoice: five ways.
Method first. Don’t be afraid to dream and set goals to achieve their dreams.
When man ceases to dream, he simply ceases to live. He slips in everyday life and routine, losing the breadth of thinking. Life becomes full of reproaches, resentment, suffering and deprivation. The joy was gone, the days are getting similar to each other. The fact is that as soon as man ceases to dream, he immediately closes the road to great prospects and opportunities. Why successful Continue reading
Don’t be afraid to go to a psychologist or child psychiatrist, deal with him, which negatively affects your child, what is the real ground of his misfortunes. Maybe you have to listen to something not very flattering to your address; it may be that already requires special measures — children’s nervous system vulnerable, and reactions to trauma can be readily fixed. Be careful and attentive!
Be especially careful with is so loved by us by means of life’s hardships — irony.
A white lie or why children lie
Often the reason for consultation with a psychologist or therapist is the loss of trust in the relationship between parents and children. Parents complain: “the Child about what we are not telling, Julita and remained silent or simply lying. ”
From what the child is saved by a lie?
Why are we so afraid of child lie? So strive at all costs to eradicate this defect? When we first notice that the child deceives us? In that moment, when he is not obeyed us, or were outside the framework that we endorse the behavior.
To dissemble and tacking child has whenever these limits become too rigid and cramped.
In other words, the child is lying, when he wants to avoid punishment or censure, when Continue reading