Don’t be afraid to go to a psychologist or child psychiatrist, deal with him, which negatively affects your child, what is the real ground of his misfortunes. Maybe you have to listen to something not very flattering to your address; it may be that already requires special measures — children’s nervous system vulnerable, and reactions to trauma can be readily fixed. Be careful and attentive!
Be especially careful with is so loved by us by means of life’s hardships — irony.
A white lie or why children lie
Often the reason for consultation with a psychologist or therapist is the loss of trust in the relationship between parents and children. Parents complain: “the Child about what we are not telling, Julita and remained silent or simply lying. ”
From what the child is saved by a lie?
Why are we so afraid of child lie? So strive at all costs to eradicate this defect? When we first notice that the child deceives us? In that moment, when he is not obeyed us, or were outside the framework that we endorse the behavior.
To dissemble and tacking child has whenever these limits become too rigid and cramped.
In other words, the child is lying, when he wants to avoid punishment or censure, when Continue reading
All parents raise their children to the best of my skill and understanding of life, rarely thinking about why, in certain situations, posttime so and not otherwise. In every family there are times when the behavior of a loved child puts adults in Tupeak. And parents from time to time Sauveurthe culprit of the error.
A promise not to love
Parents often complain that children are contesting any request. According to them, the offspring are doing it out of spite and to encourage them to common sense is meaningless. The threat here is also not valid. In such cases many people use a kind Kozyring the card: “If you’re not going like I want, I won’t love you”. Odhowever, this threat is usually quickly Zabais called. Children feel fake. Once cheated, parents can Nadalth losing the trust of the child — he will perceive them as deceitful people. Rayneck to say: «I’ll still Liuto beat, but your behavior does not approve”.
“Do what you want, I don’t care”, ” parents often say, tired of the whim of a son or daughter. They do not argue, not looking for arguments that don’t prove anything consideredTy that there is no need Continue reading
Thoughts about the health of the unborn child come along with pregnancy, when to change something already too late.
According to medical statistics in perfectly healthy young people the risk of giving birth to a defective child is 5%.
Worldwide doctors have long engaged in planned pregnancy. A couple that is preparing to conceive a child should undergo a full medical examination, to prevent possible problems in the future, and having a healthy baby .
An important step in planning a healthy child – determining chromosome set of the parents of the unborn child. This is a complete study of the blood of the parents in some countries it is also required, as the determination of blood group and rhesus factor.
A study of the chromosome set is the analysis for both parents, because the child receives half of the chromosomes from mom and half from dad. A perfectly healthy young people can be carriers of balanced chromosomal rearrangements themselves without even knowing it. But if the child receives unwanted rebuilding from one of the parents, the possible imbalance. In such a family the risk of having a child with chromosomal abnormality is 10-30%. But if a chromosomal rearrangement in the set of spouses identified in advance, perhaps Continue reading