Don’t be afraid to go to a psychologist or child psychiatrist, deal with him, which negatively affects your child, what is the real ground of his misfortunes. Maybe you have to listen to something not very flattering to your address; it may be that already requires special measures — children’s nervous system vulnerable, and reactions to trauma can be readily fixed. Be careful and attentive!
Be especially careful with is so loved by us by means of life’s hardships — irony.
A white lie or why children lie
Often the reason for consultation with a psychologist or therapist is the loss of trust in the relationship between parents and children. Parents complain: “the Child about what we are not telling, Julita and remained silent or simply lying. ”
From what the child is saved by a lie?
Why are we so afraid of child lie? So strive at all costs to eradicate this defect? When we first notice that the child deceives us? In that moment, when he is not obeyed us, or were outside the framework that we endorse the behavior.
To dissemble and tacking child has whenever these limits become too rigid and cramped.
In other words, the child is lying, when he wants to avoid punishment or censure, when Continue reading
Such a sentence the teacher gives parents a bombshell. “I’m a bad teacher”, “what will others think of me if they knew”, “as ashamed in front of the teacher” – these thoughts fireworks fly in the mind of confused adults, and the reaction is often immediate. The father pulls out a strap, mother in tears begins to appeal to the conscience of the child. And then, before parents apply radical methods of education, for assistance must come pedagogue or psychologist, who will help to answer the eternal Russian question: «Who is to blame and what to do?”
The basis for the theft can serve a variety of reason, we can distinguish the following types of theft:
1. Kleptomania– painful passion of a man for theft. The kleptomaniac desire to steal comes as impulsive as attack. For such a person no matter what to take, it attracts the very act of theft, which relieves emotional stress and internal discomfort, and the satisfaction which he feels at that, akin to narcotic drugs. Things that takes a kleptomaniac, its absolutely not attracted to you, he stashes, sometimes simply forgetting about them. Treated this disease Continue reading
Imagination makes our life colorful, emotional, unique, helps to move away from the usual stereotypes.
For the development of imagination invite your child to come up with a new story or some of its episode.
Let a “magic wand” that you will make a secret from the child, showing their skills and creativity. First you adults use it in different situations (help the Bunny to be invisible or, nobomouth, a giant; the Gingerbread man become wooden, etc.). Over time, trained the possession of the “magic wand”, your child will begin to act: to help the heroes of the tale, to rescue them from trouble. the “Magic wand” will help your child to create, the doing of good deeds, to dream, to develop imagination.
For the development of thinking, imagination and speech useful job for Association of two tales in one with a new storyline. It is a difficult task for you adults. After all, you need a logical place to introduce new characters into the storyline, twist, two, three
we have to come up with new content. In this case, active role play and speech, and a child’s imagination. When performing this task undoubtedly the leaders and organizers will be adults.
All children are resourceful enough. The invention relates to developing education. This activity has a positive Continue reading