Don’t be afraid to go to a psychologist or child psychiatrist, deal with him, which negatively affects your child, what is the real ground of his misfortunes. Maybe you have to listen to something not very flattering to your address; it may be that already requires special measures — children’s nervous system vulnerable, and reactions to trauma can be readily fixed. Be careful and attentive!
Be especially careful with is so loved by us by means of life’s hardships — irony.
A white lie or why children lie
Often the reason for consultation with a psychologist or therapist is the loss of trust in the relationship between parents and children. Parents complain: “the Child about what we are not telling, Julita and remained silent or simply lying. ”
From what the child is saved by a lie?
Why are we so afraid of child lie? So strive at all costs to eradicate this defect? When we first notice that the child deceives us? In that moment, when he is not obeyed us, or were outside the framework that we endorse the behavior.
To dissemble and tacking child has whenever these limits become too rigid and cramped.
In other words, the child is lying, when he wants to avoid punishment or censure, when Continue reading
Beautiful and very lonely
I suddenly woke up and was horrified,
He’s a Mama’s syno-o-okay …”
Every girl at least once in a lifetime encounter with this problem. It’s not even the problem — it’s a huge OOPS!
Blame, unfortunately, in this “misunderstanding” is not only the boys but also their parents, and in particular, mother. Unfortunately or fortunately, I don’t know how to say! The honorary title of – ” sissy “, is closely combined with a negative character trait — boorishness.
Get this “the honorary title of a sissy” boys who grow up in single-parent families or the education of his son lay on the shoulders of mom and dad was uncomfortable (uncomfortable, because differently it is impossible to say, any normal man before you have kids, you should care not only about the financial support of his family, but also about the education of his child) to child-rearing.
Alternatively, the head of the family was a woman, so to say the General, and the man only agreed with all her whims.
Upbringing upbringing, and his mind and character must be present. So to shift the blame on the mother, too, is not correct.
How to distinguish Continue reading
Summer, sun, green grass – all this and pulls on a walk, so dad, mom, grandparents take children and grandchildren and go for a walk. What could be better on a fine spring day and fresh air? And if you can still get a remarkable book?
Country Mom jointly with the publishing house Eksmo offers to participate in the contest “Mom, dad, I” and get in gift sets of three wonderful books. What do I need? just a place on any page of the contest up to three photos which will be a child with one or both parents (or grandmother, grandfather).
3 winners will receive the following sets of books from the publishing house Eksmo:
One of the books will be the new publishing house called “Educational shock”, the authors Bronson, Ashley Merryman. This book is a well-known American journalists turned many traditional views about the upbringing of children, their socialization and dealing with them. “Educational shock” brought the author international fame.
Millions of parents in different countries, after reading the book, it is admitted that many mistakes can be avoided if we move Continue reading