How to raise a child independent personality, extraordinary, purposeful and holistic just? Education of child labour continuous and very complex. Having two sons eight and ten years old, I regularly look for different information on this topic.
All parents and educators know that a child learn best from someone else’s example. First and foremost, such as the parents themselves. That is, if the father says to the son: “My hands before eating”, and he comes home from work, don’t do this, no matter how much the baby is not scolded, he will always have a subconscious desire to do as a father. There is a conflict in the education – mismatch between requested and actual. And this disparity will lead to misunderstanding and resistance.
Of course, each family has their own ideas about parenting. But interesting to see what practices exist in education. Recently read the nine commandments of raising a child from the “Home encyclopedia”. It’s pretty interesting thoughts, I suggest you to pay attention to them.
9 commandments of raising a child. A note to parents
1. Don’t expect your child to be like you. Or – as you want. Education should help him not become you, and themselves.
2. Do not ask the child to pay for everything you do for him: you gave him life, how can he repay you? He will give life to another, one – third: this is an irreversible law of gratitude.
3. In the process of education don’t take it out on the child their grievances to old age is not bitter bread, because what you sow, so shall ascend. Continue reading
Beautiful and very lonely
I suddenly woke up and was horrified,
He’s a Mama’s syno-o-okay …”
Every girl at least once in a lifetime encounter with this problem. It’s not even the problem — it’s a huge OOPS!
Blame, unfortunately, in this “misunderstanding” is not only the boys but also their parents, and in particular, mother. Unfortunately or fortunately, I don’t know how to say! The honorary title of – ” sissy “, is closely combined with a negative character trait — boorishness.
Get this “the honorary title of a sissy” boys who grow up in single-parent families or the education of his son lay on the shoulders of mom and dad was uncomfortable (uncomfortable, because differently it is impossible to say, any normal man before you have kids, you should care not only about the financial support of his family, but also about the education of his child) to child-rearing.
Alternatively, the head of the family was a woman, so to say the General, and the man only agreed with all her whims.
Upbringing upbringing, and his mind and character must be present. So to shift the blame on the mother, too, is not correct.
How to distinguish Continue reading
From year to year, young couples fight and even go because of my parents. And since women are more likely to come to the house of her husband, the main cause of quarrels and disputes becomes the mother-in-law. Often it even before the wedding believes that:
the son is worthy of the best of the party;
it is too early to marry.
the girl can’t cook, not economic, not beautiful, not clever and million any “no”.
And all because she subconsciously perceives future daughter-in-law as a rival. For the same reason mom husband tries to keep a predominant role in the life of the son. Adding fuel to the fire and character-especially if her inherent lack of restraint in speech.
Such prejudiced attitude on the part of the husband’s mother and not daughter-in-law, characteristic of young persons, leads to constant conflicts. Allow them a son, he’s the husband. That he will “put on the spot and a wife, and mother.” And to do it correctly without offending either side. If peace in the family is not possible, the best way to solve the problem is to disperse!
But if you do that you are not yet in force, then we should have the wisdom sister-in-law and to abide by simple rules that will help keep peace in the family.
Relationship with her mother in law: 5 simple rules
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