Don’t be afraid to go to a psychologist or child psychiatrist, deal with him, which negatively affects your child, what is the real ground of his misfortunes. Maybe you have to listen to something not very flattering to your address; it may be that already requires special measures — children’s nervous system vulnerable, and reactions to trauma can be readily fixed. Be careful and attentive!
Be especially careful with is so loved by us by means of life’s hardships — irony.
A white lie or why children lie
Often the reason for consultation with a psychologist or therapist is the loss of trust in the relationship between parents and children. Parents complain: “the Child about what we are not telling, Julita and remained silent or simply lying. ”
From what the child is saved by a lie?
Why are we so afraid of child lie? So strive at all costs to eradicate this defect? When we first notice that the child deceives us? In that moment, when he is not obeyed us, or were outside the framework that we endorse the behavior.
To dissemble and tacking child has whenever these limits become too rigid and cramped.
In other words, the child is lying, when he wants to avoid punishment or censure, when Continue reading
Than similar adults and newborns? – Respect is for tiny baby is just as important as for older.
How to talk with the child to his heart trembled with pain, and happily opened up to Your words? Remember your childhood, parental words and expressions that You combed: “shut up or you catch a fly”, “don’t slouch – Brokeback.” They are all here and waiting in the wings. No wonder they say that the word hurts. Imagine all these succinct statements that will get Your grandchildren and great-grandchildren, and the rest of the kids who come after You.
So how to speak that children listened and heard, and rejoiced in the fellowship? There is a wonderful reception, its meaning: talk to your children like it’s Your best friend. You can imagine what my favorite girlfriend will suddenly hear from You: “you stomp like an elephant!”, “you out of his pants belly sticks out”? And family and our most vulnerable men hear it all the time. Meanwhile, to treat a son or daughter, best friend so easy!
During the first hour after birth, a tiny little man look looking for his mother. Bonding, eye contact Continue reading
“You sustra district Korabelniy –
the edge of narechenih I sudnobudivnikiv.
You soustrot people cheerful,
Lawn of namadgi their beauty!”
The inscription on the fence
It’s time to sum up the results of drawing competition
“My native city of Nikolaev” (timed to the city Day, held between the schools of the Ship area .
Recall, each institution was given for creativity 8-10 slabs of concrete fence on “the stretch”. Plate guys got all sorts: smooth, ribbed, similar to a honeycomb.
Approach to the job at the school in the “artists” were also different. However, each of them had a concept, select a specific theme.
Remember the guys in his drawings and the enterprise area of cultural, historical and sports facilities, and just dreamed, drawing the city of the future.
Tried to connect to the skill of imagination — some less, some more. To understand what “tell” certain drawings, journalist sometimes it was necessary to consult with representatives of schools.
So, for example, 11th graders from school No. 48 on several Continue reading