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MEET WITH the CHILD the MORNING JOYFULLY

Morning is the most difficult and challenging for the child. For each it is different. One child wakes up with pleasure, and parting with sleep

occurs instantly. Another long time can not Wake up. It is important

take into account the peculiarities of the physiological development of children.

You are full of worries about the coming day. Time inexorably dictates the tempo of conduct:

make Breakfast, clean up, talk, to remind you in time for

work – a thousand little things, conflicts, expectations. In this kaleidoscope Affairs and

dependencies – your child. To Wake, feed, look after

clothes, to send to school. You almost don’t realize their actions: all

long moved into a skill, a habit. What kind of habits? Did

your child involved in cooking Breakfast? Helped to clear the table? In

what kind of mood he goes to school? What was your reaction to your

last comment? What are your thoughts as you go to work?

Morning or charges you light spirituality, or ukrepliaet you in secret bitterness of resentment, a poignant question, a slight pain.

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Children’s lies – a method of self-defense

Don’t be afraid to go to a psychologist or child psychiatrist, deal with him, which negatively affects your child, what is the real ground of his misfortunes. Maybe you have to listen to something not very flattering to your address; it may be that already requires special measures — children’s nervous system vulnerable, and reactions to trauma can be readily fixed. Be careful and attentive!

Be especially careful with is so loved by us by means of life’s hardships — irony.

A white lie or why children lie

Often the reason for consultation with a psychologist or therapist is the loss of trust in the relationship between parents and children. Parents complain: “the Child about what we are not telling, Julita and remained silent or simply lying. ”

From what the child is saved by a lie?

Why are we so afraid of child lie? So strive at all costs to eradicate this defect? When we first notice that the child deceives us? In that moment, when he is not obeyed us, or were outside the framework that we endorse the behavior.

To dissemble and tacking child has whenever these limits become too rigid and cramped.

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Careful, MOM!

Beautiful and very lonely

I suddenly woke up and was horrified,

He’s a Mama’s syno-o-okay …”

Every girl at least once in a lifetime encounter with this problem. It’s not even the problem — it’s a huge OOPS!

Blame, unfortunately, in this “misunderstanding” is not only the boys but also their parents, and in particular, mother. Unfortunately or fortunately, I don’t know how to say! The honorary title of – ” sissy “, is closely combined with a negative character trait — boorishness.

Get this “the honorary title of a sissy” boys who grow up in single-parent families or the education of his son lay on the shoulders of mom and dad was uncomfortable (uncomfortable, because differently it is impossible to say, any normal man before you have kids, you should care not only about the financial support of his family, but also about the education of his child) to child-rearing.

Alternatively, the head of the family was a woman, so to say the General, and the man only agreed with all her whims.

Upbringing upbringing, and his mind and character must be present. So to shift the blame on the mother, too, is not correct.

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