Don’t be afraid to go to a psychologist or child psychiatrist, deal with him, which negatively affects your child, what is the real ground of his misfortunes. Maybe you have to listen to something not very flattering to your address; it may be that already requires special measures — children’s nervous system vulnerable, and reactions to trauma can be readily fixed. Be careful and attentive!
Be especially careful with is so loved by us by means of life’s hardships — irony.
A white lie or why children lie
Often the reason for consultation with a psychologist or therapist is the loss of trust in the relationship between parents and children. Parents complain: “the Child about what we are not telling, Julita and remained silent or simply lying. ”
From what the child is saved by a lie?
Why are we so afraid of child lie? So strive at all costs to eradicate this defect? When we first notice that the child deceives us? In that moment, when he is not obeyed us, or were outside the framework that we endorse the behavior.
To dissemble and tacking child has whenever these limits become too rigid and cramped.
In other words, the child is lying, when he wants to avoid punishment or censure, when Continue reading
Thoughts about the health of the unborn child come along with pregnancy, when to change something already too late.
According to medical statistics in perfectly healthy young people the risk of giving birth to a defective child is 5%.
Worldwide doctors have long engaged in planned pregnancy. A couple that is preparing to conceive a child should undergo a full medical examination, to prevent possible problems in the future, and having a healthy baby .
An important step in planning a healthy child – determining chromosome set of the parents of the unborn child. This is a complete study of the blood of the parents in some countries it is also required, as the determination of blood group and rhesus factor.
A study of the chromosome set is the analysis for both parents, because the child receives half of the chromosomes from mom and half from dad. A perfectly healthy young people can be carriers of balanced chromosomal rearrangements themselves without even knowing it. But if the child receives unwanted rebuilding from one of the parents, the possible imbalance. In such a family the risk of having a child with chromosomal abnormality is 10-30%. But if a chromosomal rearrangement in the set of spouses identified in advance, perhaps Continue reading
Sometimes parents think that the only way to be heard is a scream. Learn how not to succumb to this temptation, and to make raising a child more pleasant and easy.
How often do children ask for something that they cannot: cake for Breakfast, bring a bathing suit on a cold day… And when they receive legitimate “no!”, they are falling off to leeward on the floor, screaming and all the kicking. This is enough to leave the state of moral equilibrium and to yell.
As it turns out that the request for the piece of cake in the morning makes mom or dad to scream and go wild? If you have never yelled at your child, in fact, statistically, you get 10% of parents. And the scream is followed by a sense of guilt, it remains an unpleasant aftertaste and a desire to find a more effective method of education.
Does the screaming child?
According to psychotherapist Alyson Schafer, author of books about the education of young children, on the child the cry of the parent also affects negatively. If this is your main way to influence the child’s behavior, you could instill in your child a sense of self-doubt, lack of trust and sense of security. The raised voice coming from mom or dad, activates emotional response “to defend or escape Continue reading