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Different approaches in parenting

We educate our children and want them to grow up and such-that and such-that they didn’t make our mistakes, so he was happy. If you look in the dictionary, we see that « Education — it is a purposeful shaping of personality in order to prepare them to participate in public and cultural life in accordance with socio-cultural normative models» . In life education is usually called the impact that we had on the child, and its results.

Actually, even if our influence will be neither deliberate nor conscious, a person from our baby will still be formed. He will grow up like us. «the Child learns what he sees in his home». This law repeal will not be so, if we desire that our child didn’t inherit from us some of the features, you just need to get rid of them ourselves.

But now we will talk about purposeful and conscious education and the various approaches to it . After our success on the path of education is directly dependent on the approach, and accordingly, a method in raising children, we are choosing. And the approach depends on what the goals and objectives of education we set ourselves.

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MEET WITH the CHILD the MORNING JOYFULLY

Morning is the most difficult and challenging for the child. For each it is different. One child wakes up with pleasure, and parting with sleep

occurs instantly. Another long time can not Wake up. It is important

take into account the peculiarities of the physiological development of children.

You are full of worries about the coming day. Time inexorably dictates the tempo of conduct:

make Breakfast, clean up, talk, to remind you in time for

work – a thousand little things, conflicts, expectations. In this kaleidoscope Affairs and

dependencies – your child. To Wake, feed, look after

clothes, to send to school. You almost don’t realize their actions: all

long moved into a skill, a habit. What kind of habits? Did

your child involved in cooking Breakfast? Helped to clear the table? In

what kind of mood he goes to school? What was your reaction to your

last comment? What are your thoughts as you go to work?

Morning or charges you light spirituality, or ukrepliaet you in secret bitterness of resentment, a poignant question, a slight pain.

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9 commandments of raising a child.

How to raise a child independent personality, extraordinary, purposeful and holistic just? Education of child labour continuous and very complex. Having two sons eight and ten years old, I regularly look for different information on this topic.

All parents and educators know that a child learn best from someone else’s example. First and foremost, such as the parents themselves. That is, if the father says to the son: “My hands before eating”, and he comes home from work, don’t do this, no matter how much the baby is not scolded, he will always have a subconscious desire to do as a father. There is a conflict in the education – mismatch between requested and actual. And this disparity will lead to misunderstanding and resistance.

Of course, each family has their own ideas about parenting. But interesting to see what practices exist in education. Recently read the nine commandments of raising a child from the “Home encyclopedia”. It’s pretty interesting thoughts, I suggest you to pay attention to them.

9 commandments of raising a child. A note to parents

1. Don’t expect your child to be like you. Or – as you want. Education should help him not become you, and themselves.

2. Do not ask the child to pay for everything you do for him: you gave him life, how can he repay you? He will give life to another, one – third: this is an irreversible law of gratitude.

3. In the process of education don’t take it out on the child their grievances to old age is not bitter bread, because what you sow, so shall ascend. Continue reading

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