Beautiful and very lonely
I suddenly woke up and was horrified,
He’s a Mama’s syno-o-okay …”
Every girl at least once in a lifetime encounter with this problem. It’s not even the problem — it’s a huge OOPS!
Blame, unfortunately, in this “misunderstanding” is not only the boys but also their parents, and in particular, mother. Unfortunately or fortunately, I don’t know how to say! The honorary title of – ” sissy “, is closely combined with a negative character trait — boorishness.
Get this “the honorary title of a sissy” boys who grow up in single-parent families or the education of his son lay on the shoulders of mom and dad was uncomfortable (uncomfortable, because differently it is impossible to say, any normal man before you have kids, you should care not only about the financial support of his family, but also about the education of his child) to child-rearing.
Alternatively, the head of the family was a woman, so to say the General, and the man only agreed with all her whims.
Upbringing upbringing, and his mind and character must be present. So to shift the blame on the mother, too, is not correct.
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The brain is not disabled during sleep, so he “doesn’t sleep”, and Vice versa – the kid he works and develops more intense in periods of sleep.
Consequently, just as the subconscious is delayed more firmly everything that happens in the dream, for example, a sense of security and proximity to mother during a joint dream; sucking in his sleep (children very quickly learn to find the power source, not waking up – too complicated brain activity); all other impressions, available senses during sleep (e.g., auditory). And, accordingly, the planting of more fixed in the brain during sleep than daytime.
And Vice versa – if in the dream the child is always in the diaper, the brain receives the command “unnecessary regulation” of this system. The brain is our (unfortunately and fortunately) very economical works – he likes to make “unnecessary movements” and therefore ceases to give those teams that become irrelevant. Team on the establishment of biological rhythms and the regulation of the genitourinary system in the case of diapers become unnecessary.
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A very important factor that complicates the relationship between parents and children, the inability of parents in a calm and respectful to the child to Express their thoughts. Often adults are not able to calmly and clearly explain to the child what they want from him, i.e., to articulate their expectations. They endlessly criticize him, invite other people to inspire son or daughter what he / she need to be.
The ability to discuss the problem with the child is another important aspect of education art parent. “It is possible, if from early childhood to establish a dialogue and not a monologue, writes Metropolitan Anthony of Sourozh. — And if the child is reported to be only with their ears, and the parents only voice, then nothing happens. But if from early childhood parents showed interest: are you interested to me! Each of your thoughts are interesting to me, all of your experience and all movements of the mind and soul is interesting, I don’t understand. The trouble with parents is that they almost always put themselves in that position: I understand, but you don’t understand. But if parents would say (that’s just the truth): “I do not understand, you explain to me very much could be explained. Because children readily explain what they think, if not oidium that there oke Sadat and prove that they’re wrong.” Continue reading