Raising a child is a complicated matter. You are convinced of all young parents who dreamed of an obedient child. Kids don’t listen, yells, runs away. What to do? How to raise a child properly? What is the secret of raising a child without punishment – happy little man?
How parents not to sacrifice your life and not to give up their own interests? How to raise the child on his feet, not at the expense of yourself and your life plans? How to educate and not to spoil? Where is the boundary between parental love and acquiescence, connivance? As no punishment to get the son or daughter of obedience? These nuances of raising a child in childhood, the rules of communication with preschool children and school children we now discuss.
The secrets of proper upbringing of children by parents without punishment and scream
1. Install leadership
In the relationship between mother and child should not be ambiguity. Clearly the leader in the relationship with the child should be the mother . and the child – slave and reaching for his mother – and not Vice versa!
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The brain is not disabled during sleep, so he “doesn’t sleep”, and Vice versa – the kid he works and develops more intense in periods of sleep.
Consequently, just as the subconscious is delayed more firmly everything that happens in the dream, for example, a sense of security and proximity to mother during a joint dream; sucking in his sleep (children very quickly learn to find the power source, not waking up – too complicated brain activity); all other impressions, available senses during sleep (e.g., auditory). And, accordingly, the planting of more fixed in the brain during sleep than daytime.
And Vice versa – if in the dream the child is always in the diaper, the brain receives the command “unnecessary regulation” of this system. The brain is our (unfortunately and fortunately) very economical works – he likes to make “unnecessary movements” and therefore ceases to give those teams that become irrelevant. Team on the establishment of biological rhythms and the regulation of the genitourinary system in the case of diapers become unnecessary.
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Than similar adults and newborns? – Respect is for tiny baby is just as important as for older.
How to talk with the child to his heart trembled with pain, and happily opened up to Your words? Remember your childhood, parental words and expressions that You combed: “shut up or you catch a fly”, “don’t slouch – Brokeback.” They are all here and waiting in the wings. No wonder they say that the word hurts. Imagine all these succinct statements that will get Your grandchildren and great-grandchildren, and the rest of the kids who come after You.
So how to speak that children listened and heard, and rejoiced in the fellowship? There is a wonderful reception, its meaning: talk to your children like it’s Your best friend. You can imagine what my favorite girlfriend will suddenly hear from You: “you stomp like an elephant!”, “you out of his pants belly sticks out”? And family and our most vulnerable men hear it all the time. Meanwhile, to treat a son or daughter, best friend so easy!
During the first hour after birth, a tiny little man look looking for his mother. Bonding, eye contact Continue reading