Don’t be afraid to go to a psychologist or child psychiatrist, deal with him, which negatively affects your child, what is the real ground of his misfortunes. Maybe you have to listen to something not very flattering to your address; it may be that already requires special measures — children’s nervous system vulnerable, and reactions to trauma can be readily fixed. Be careful and attentive!
Be especially careful with is so loved by us by means of life’s hardships — irony.
A white lie or why children lie
Often the reason for consultation with a psychologist or therapist is the loss of trust in the relationship between parents and children. Parents complain: “the Child about what we are not telling, Julita and remained silent or simply lying. ”
From what the child is saved by a lie?
Why are we so afraid of child lie? So strive at all costs to eradicate this defect? When we first notice that the child deceives us? In that moment, when he is not obeyed us, or were outside the framework that we endorse the behavior.
To dissemble and tacking child has whenever these limits become too rigid and cramped.
In other words, the child is lying, when he wants to avoid punishment or censure, when Continue reading
Many parents are anxious, when you will notice that their children do not write or draw with the right hand and the left, trying to relearn or even turn to doctors.
Parents can understand. Because left-handed isolated from the masses: unusual, as it is known, attracts attention. They in many cases look not with-concealed interest, and it is easy to imagine that such a person feels, forced life to feel unneeded, and sometimes not appropriate the attention of others to himself? But this is a grown man and a kid? Concerned parents often in the presence of the child discuss the evolving perspective, worrying about the child’s future. And from an early age he begins to feel the inferiority complex, trying to hide his left-handedness as goodness knows what sin.
What is handedness? Whether trying to retrain such a child? How is it different from the others?
The adult brain consists of the right and left hemispheres, each of which is not mirroring the other, and a necessary addition to another, as in one and in the other hemisphere are concentrated entirely different centres of human activity. For example, the left is responsible for speech and abstract thinking, right for musical and artistic Continue reading
“The source of the desire to learn is in the very nature of child mental labor, in the emotional coloring of thought and intellectual experiences. If that source dries up, any receptions will not force the child to sit with a book.”
Here the child first raised his head to see where removed mom, that made the first movement toward toys, and later said the first word to indicate what he wants. All of this – the first signs of conscious activity, which is determined by his thinking.
By definition, thinking is always the search for and discovery of significantly new (here there is a view that opened up in the new thinking is that in relation only to earlier stages of thinking and generally throughout the life of the individual, and not all humanity). Already a small child, as he basic kinds of mental activity begins to discover. For example, he thinks about the device of a toy, trying to understand some of the relationships between people, possesses more complex skills and abilities.
At a time when the child develops, he begins to consistently turn on different genes that determine the direction of further Continue reading