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Different approaches in parenting

We educate our children and want them to grow up and such-that and such-that they didn’t make our mistakes, so he was happy. If you look in the dictionary, we see that « Education — it is a purposeful shaping of personality in order to prepare them to participate in public and cultural life in accordance with socio-cultural normative models» . In life education is usually called the impact that we had on the child, and its results.

Actually, even if our influence will be neither deliberate nor conscious, a person from our baby will still be formed. He will grow up like us. «the Child learns what he sees in his home». This law repeal will not be so, if we desire that our child didn’t inherit from us some of the features, you just need to get rid of them ourselves.

But now we will talk about purposeful and conscious education and the various approaches to it . After our success on the path of education is directly dependent on the approach, and accordingly, a method in raising children, we are choosing. And the approach depends on what the goals and objectives of education we set ourselves.

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Mom, Dad, I’m

Summer, sun, green grass – all this and pulls on a walk, so dad, mom, grandparents take children and grandchildren and go for a walk. What could be better on a fine spring day and fresh air? And if you can still get a remarkable book?

Country Mom jointly with the publishing house Eksmo offers to participate in the contest “Mom, dad, I” and get in gift sets of three wonderful books. What do I need? just a place on any page of the contest up to three photos which will be a child with one or both parents (or grandmother, grandfather).

3 winners will receive the following sets of books from the publishing house Eksmo:

One of the books will be the new publishing house called “Educational shock”, the authors Bronson, Ashley Merryman. This book is a well-known American journalists turned many traditional views about the upbringing of children, their socialization and dealing with them. “Educational shock” brought the author international fame.

Millions of parents in different countries, after reading the book, it is admitted that many mistakes can be avoided if we move Continue reading

Discipline without shouting

Sometimes parents think that the only way to be heard is a scream. Learn how not to succumb to this temptation, and to make raising a child more pleasant and easy.

How often do children ask for something that they cannot: cake for Breakfast, bring a bathing suit on a cold day… And when they receive legitimate “no!”, they are falling off to leeward on the floor, screaming and all the kicking. This is enough to leave the state of moral equilibrium and to yell.

As it turns out that the request for the piece of cake in the morning makes mom or dad to scream and go wild? If you have never yelled at your child, in fact, statistically, you get 10% of parents. And the scream is followed by a sense of guilt, it remains an unpleasant aftertaste and a desire to find a more effective method of education.

Does the screaming child?

According to psychotherapist Alyson Schafer, author of books about the education of young children, on the child the cry of the parent also affects negatively. If this is your main way to influence the child’s behavior, you could instill in your child a sense of self-doubt, lack of trust and sense of security. The raised voice coming from mom or dad, activates emotional response “to defend or escape Continue reading

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