How to raise a child independent personality, extraordinary, purposeful and holistic just? Education of child labour continuous and very complex. Having two sons eight and ten years old, I regularly look for different information on this topic.
All parents and educators know that a child learn best from someone else’s example. First and foremost, such as the parents themselves. That is, if the father says to the son: “My hands before eating”, and he comes home from work, don’t do this, no matter how much the baby is not scolded, he will always have a subconscious desire to do as a father. There is a conflict in the education – mismatch between requested and actual. And this disparity will lead to misunderstanding and resistance.
Of course, each family has their own ideas about parenting. But interesting to see what practices exist in education. Recently read the nine commandments of raising a child from the “Home encyclopedia”. It’s pretty interesting thoughts, I suggest you to pay attention to them.
9 commandments of raising a child. A note to parents
1. Don’t expect your child to be like you. Or – as you want. Education should help him not become you, and themselves.
2. Do not ask the child to pay for everything you do for him: you gave him life, how can he repay you? He will give life to another, one – third: this is an irreversible law of gratitude.
3. In the process of education don’t take it out on the child their grievances to old age is not bitter bread, because what you sow, so shall ascend. Continue reading
All the time getting their hands in your mouth, chew collar blouse, mommy’s hair is wound on the handle…so small, and has already acquired habits which are useful and good will not name…
What this habit? To understand how it operates the mechanism, imagine this situation. You like to wear clothes with pockets and periodically to keep them in hand. Try to wear clothes without pockets. You will notice that during a certain period of time your hand will automatically reach for my pockets more than once. It was the habit! Definitely not crowned with success, your attempts will become more and more rare and will gradually disappear. But it will take time.
“Foundation” bad habits
The “Foundation” for the origin of habits and the development of stereotype behavior in kids actions become quite harmless. Typically, the first “germs” cause no alarm among parents and does not portend problems in the future.
For example, the baby is 4-5 months aggressively pulls the handle in his mouth, Continue reading
“You sustra district Korabelniy –
the edge of narechenih I sudnobudivnikiv.
You soustrot people cheerful,
Lawn of namadgi their beauty!”
The inscription on the fence
It’s time to sum up the results of drawing competition
“My native city of Nikolaev” (timed to the city Day, held between the schools of the Ship area .
Recall, each institution was given for creativity 8-10 slabs of concrete fence on “the stretch”. Plate guys got all sorts: smooth, ribbed, similar to a honeycomb.
Approach to the job at the school in the “artists” were also different. However, each of them had a concept, select a specific theme.
Remember the guys in his drawings and the enterprise area of cultural, historical and sports facilities, and just dreamed, drawing the city of the future.
Tried to connect to the skill of imagination — some less, some more. To understand what “tell” certain drawings, journalist sometimes it was necessary to consult with representatives of schools.
So, for example, 11th graders from school No. 48 on several Continue reading