We educate our children and want them to grow up and such-that and such-that they didn’t make our mistakes, so he was happy. If you look in the dictionary, we see that « Education — it is a purposeful shaping of personality in order to prepare them to participate in public and cultural life in accordance with socio-cultural normative models» . In life education is usually called the impact that we had on the child, and its results.
Actually, even if our influence will be neither deliberate nor conscious, a person from our baby will still be formed. He will grow up like us. «the Child learns what he sees in his home». This law repeal will not be so, if we desire that our child didn’t inherit from us some of the features, you just need to get rid of them ourselves.
But now we will talk about purposeful and conscious education and the various approaches to it . After our success on the path of education is directly dependent on the approach, and accordingly, a method in raising children, we are choosing. And the approach depends on what the goals and objectives of education we set ourselves.
Why can’t something be explained to the child? Why he doesn’t listen and doesn’t listen? Continue reading
Yes, someone will say that it is impossible to live and continually to rejoice, because in life a lot of problems and worries, and troubles. Well, if you take the reverse situation? There are people who constantly live without joy, with a stone heart, with a closed mind. They don’t know what is the joy of the soul and the joy of love . They are always dissatisfied with everything and every day find a reason to be unhappy even more. So why not live the other way around? Every day to find a reason for joy, to radiate gratitude and positivity. So you can live! And even need! The more you will radiate joy and pleasure, the more that will come into your life.
So how can you add to the life of joy? There are several ways.
Learning how to live and rejoice: five ways.
Method first. Don’t be afraid to dream and set goals to achieve their dreams.
When man ceases to dream, he simply ceases to live. He slips in everyday life and routine, losing the breadth of thinking. Life becomes full of reproaches, resentment, suffering and deprivation. The joy was gone, the days are getting similar to each other. The fact is that as soon as man ceases to dream, he immediately closes the road to great prospects and opportunities. Why successful Continue reading
How to raise a child independent personality, extraordinary, purposeful and holistic just? Education of child labour continuous and very complex. Having two sons eight and ten years old, I regularly look for different information on this topic.
All parents and educators know that a child learn best from someone else’s example. First and foremost, such as the parents themselves. That is, if the father says to the son: “My hands before eating”, and he comes home from work, don’t do this, no matter how much the baby is not scolded, he will always have a subconscious desire to do as a father. There is a conflict in the education – mismatch between requested and actual. And this disparity will lead to misunderstanding and resistance.
Of course, each family has their own ideas about parenting. But interesting to see what practices exist in education. Recently read the nine commandments of raising a child from the “Home encyclopedia”. It’s pretty interesting thoughts, I suggest you to pay attention to them.
9 commandments of raising a child. A note to parents
1. Don’t expect your child to be like you. Or – as you want. Education should help him not become you, and themselves.
2. Do not ask the child to pay for everything you do for him: you gave him life, how can he repay you? He will give life to another, one – third: this is an irreversible law of gratitude.
3. In the process of education don’t take it out on the child their grievances to old age is not bitter bread, because what you sow, so shall ascend. Continue reading