Morning is the most difficult and challenging for the child. For each it is different. One child wakes up with pleasure, and parting with sleep
occurs instantly. Another long time can not Wake up. It is important
take into account the peculiarities of the physiological development of children.
You are full of worries about the coming day. Time inexorably dictates the tempo of conduct:
make Breakfast, clean up, talk, to remind you in time for
work – a thousand little things, conflicts, expectations. In this kaleidoscope Affairs and
dependencies – your child. To Wake, feed, look after
clothes, to send to school. You almost don’t realize their actions: all
long moved into a skill, a habit. What kind of habits? Did
your child involved in cooking Breakfast? Helped to clear the table? In
what kind of mood he goes to school? What was your reaction to your
last comment? What are your thoughts as you go to work?
Morning or charges you light spirituality, or ukrepliaet you in secret bitterness of resentment, a poignant question, a slight pain.
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Beautiful and very lonely
I suddenly woke up and was horrified,
He’s a Mama’s syno-o-okay …”
Every girl at least once in a lifetime encounter with this problem. It’s not even the problem — it’s a huge OOPS!
Blame, unfortunately, in this “misunderstanding” is not only the boys but also their parents, and in particular, mother. Unfortunately or fortunately, I don’t know how to say! The honorary title of – ” sissy “, is closely combined with a negative character trait — boorishness.
Get this “the honorary title of a sissy” boys who grow up in single-parent families or the education of his son lay on the shoulders of mom and dad was uncomfortable (uncomfortable, because differently it is impossible to say, any normal man before you have kids, you should care not only about the financial support of his family, but also about the education of his child) to child-rearing.
Alternatively, the head of the family was a woman, so to say the General, and the man only agreed with all her whims.
Upbringing upbringing, and his mind and character must be present. So to shift the blame on the mother, too, is not correct.
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A very important factor that complicates the relationship between parents and children, the inability of parents in a calm and respectful to the child to Express their thoughts. Often adults are not able to calmly and clearly explain to the child what they want from him, i.e., to articulate their expectations. They endlessly criticize him, invite other people to inspire son or daughter what he / she need to be.
The ability to discuss the problem with the child is another important aspect of education art parent. “It is possible, if from early childhood to establish a dialogue and not a monologue, writes Metropolitan Anthony of Sourozh. — And if the child is reported to be only with their ears, and the parents only voice, then nothing happens. But if from early childhood parents showed interest: are you interested to me! Each of your thoughts are interesting to me, all of your experience and all movements of the mind and soul is interesting, I don’t understand. The trouble with parents is that they almost always put themselves in that position: I understand, but you don’t understand. But if parents would say (that’s just the truth): “I do not understand, you explain to me very much could be explained. Because children readily explain what they think, if not oidium that there oke Sadat and prove that they’re wrong.” Continue reading