Raising a child is a complicated matter. You are convinced of all young parents who dreamed of an obedient child. Kids don’t listen, yells, runs away. What to do? How to raise a child properly? What is the secret of raising a child without punishment – happy little man?
How parents not to sacrifice your life and not to give up their own interests? How to raise the child on his feet, not at the expense of yourself and your life plans? How to educate and not to spoil? Where is the boundary between parental love and acquiescence, connivance? As no punishment to get the son or daughter of obedience? These nuances of raising a child in childhood, the rules of communication with preschool children and school children we now discuss.
The secrets of proper upbringing of children by parents without punishment and scream
1. Install leadership
In the relationship between mother and child should not be ambiguity. Clearly the leader in the relationship with the child should be the mother . and the child – slave and reaching for his mother – and not Vice versa!
If the vast majority of cases, the baby is 3-4 years impose their desires parents, he is spoilt . And before it’s too late, parents should try to correct Continue reading
How to raise a child independent personality, extraordinary, purposeful and holistic just? Education of child labour continuous and very complex. Having two sons eight and ten years old, I regularly look for different information on this topic.
All parents and educators know that a child learn best from someone else’s example. First and foremost, such as the parents themselves. That is, if the father says to the son: “My hands before eating”, and he comes home from work, don’t do this, no matter how much the baby is not scolded, he will always have a subconscious desire to do as a father. There is a conflict in the education – mismatch between requested and actual. And this disparity will lead to misunderstanding and resistance.
Of course, each family has their own ideas about parenting. But interesting to see what practices exist in education. Recently read the nine commandments of raising a child from the “Home encyclopedia”. It’s pretty interesting thoughts, I suggest you to pay attention to them.
9 commandments of raising a child. A note to parents
1. Don’t expect your child to be like you. Or – as you want. Education should help him not become you, and themselves.
2. Do not ask the child to pay for everything you do for him: you gave him life, how can he repay you? He will give life to another, one – third: this is an irreversible law of gratitude.
3. In the process of education don’t take it out on the child their grievances to old age is not bitter bread, because what you sow, so shall ascend. Continue reading
Than similar adults and newborns? – Respect is for tiny baby is just as important as for older.
How to talk with the child to his heart trembled with pain, and happily opened up to Your words? Remember your childhood, parental words and expressions that You combed: “shut up or you catch a fly”, “don’t slouch – Brokeback.” They are all here and waiting in the wings. No wonder they say that the word hurts. Imagine all these succinct statements that will get Your grandchildren and great-grandchildren, and the rest of the kids who come after You.
So how to speak that children listened and heard, and rejoiced in the fellowship? There is a wonderful reception, its meaning: talk to your children like it’s Your best friend. You can imagine what my favorite girlfriend will suddenly hear from You: “you stomp like an elephant!”, “you out of his pants belly sticks out”? And family and our most vulnerable men hear it all the time. Meanwhile, to treat a son or daughter, best friend so easy!
During the first hour after birth, a tiny little man look looking for his mother. Bonding, eye contact Continue reading