Raising a child is a complicated matter. You are convinced of all young parents who dreamed of an obedient child. Kids don’t listen, yells, runs away. What to do? How to raise a child properly? What is the secret of raising a child without punishment – happy little man?
How parents not to sacrifice your life and not to give up their own interests? How to raise the child on his feet, not at the expense of yourself and your life plans? How to educate and not to spoil? Where is the boundary between parental love and acquiescence, connivance? As no punishment to get the son or daughter of obedience? These nuances of raising a child in childhood, the rules of communication with preschool children and school children we now discuss.
The secrets of proper upbringing of children by parents without punishment and scream
1. Install leadership
In the relationship between mother and child should not be ambiguity. Clearly the leader in the relationship with the child should be the mother . and the child – slave and reaching for his mother – and not Vice versa!
If the vast majority of cases, the baby is 3-4 years impose their desires parents, he is spoilt . And before it’s too late, parents should try to correct Continue reading
All the time getting their hands in your mouth, chew collar blouse, mommy’s hair is wound on the handle…so small, and has already acquired habits which are useful and good will not name…
What this habit? To understand how it operates the mechanism, imagine this situation. You like to wear clothes with pockets and periodically to keep them in hand. Try to wear clothes without pockets. You will notice that during a certain period of time your hand will automatically reach for my pockets more than once. It was the habit! Definitely not crowned with success, your attempts will become more and more rare and will gradually disappear. But it will take time.
“Foundation” bad habits
The “Foundation” for the origin of habits and the development of stereotype behavior in kids actions become quite harmless. Typically, the first “germs” cause no alarm among parents and does not portend problems in the future.
For example, the baby is 4-5 months aggressively pulls the handle in his mouth, Continue reading
Such a sentence the teacher gives parents a bombshell. “I’m a bad teacher”, “what will others think of me if they knew”, “as ashamed in front of the teacher” – these thoughts fireworks fly in the mind of confused adults, and the reaction is often immediate. The father pulls out a strap, mother in tears begins to appeal to the conscience of the child. And then, before parents apply radical methods of education, for assistance must come pedagogue or psychologist, who will help to answer the eternal Russian question: «Who is to blame and what to do?”
The basis for the theft can serve a variety of reason, we can distinguish the following types of theft:
1. Kleptomania– painful passion of a man for theft. The kleptomaniac desire to steal comes as impulsive as attack. For such a person no matter what to take, it attracts the very act of theft, which relieves emotional stress and internal discomfort, and the satisfaction which he feels at that, akin to narcotic drugs. Things that takes a kleptomaniac, its absolutely not attracted to you, he stashes, sometimes simply forgetting about them. Treated this disease Continue reading