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Discipline without shouting

Sometimes parents think that the only way to be heard is a scream. Learn how not to succumb to this temptation, and to make raising a child more pleasant and easy.

How often do children ask for something that they cannot: cake for Breakfast, bring a bathing suit on a cold day… And when they receive legitimate “no!”, they are falling off to leeward on the floor, screaming and all the kicking. This is enough to leave the state of moral equilibrium and to yell.

As it turns out that the request for the piece of cake in the morning makes mom or dad to scream and go wild? If you have never yelled at your child, in fact, statistically, you get 10% of parents. And the scream is followed by a sense of guilt, it remains an unpleasant aftertaste and a desire to find a more effective method of education.

Does the screaming child?

According to psychotherapist Alyson Schafer, author of books about the education of young children, on the child the cry of the parent also affects negatively. If this is your main way to influence the child’s behavior, you could instill in your child a sense of self-doubt, lack of trust and sense of security. The raised voice coming from mom or dad, activates emotional response “to defend or escape Continue reading

The steps of the development of thinking of children first year of life

“The source of the desire to learn is in the very nature of child mental labor, in the emotional coloring of thought and intellectual experiences. If that source dries up, any receptions will not force the child to sit with a book.”

Here the child first raised his head to see where removed mom, that made the first movement toward toys, and later said the first word to indicate what he wants. All of this – the first signs of conscious activity, which is determined by his thinking.

By definition, thinking is always the search for and discovery of significantly new (here there is a view that opened up in the new thinking is that in relation only to earlier stages of thinking and generally throughout the life of the individual, and not all humanity). Already a small child, as he basic kinds of mental activity begins to discover. For example, he thinks about the device of a toy, trying to understand some of the relationships between people, possesses more complex skills and abilities.

At a time when the child develops, he begins to consistently turn on different genes that determine the direction of further Continue reading

From a boy to raise a man who doesn’t cry?

Women can often hear the regret that today’s boys lack male parenting, and as a result lack of male parenting men do not manifest themselves in a masculine way. This is a huge however, only are we ready for such an upbringing. Women can often hear the regret that today’s boys lack male parenting, and as a result lack of male parenting men do not manifest themselves in a masculine way. This is a huge however, only are we ready for such education, including whether women themselves to make difficult the norms of male parenting, education like men? The belief “Men don’t cry” is a required part of men’s education. I think this is a good believe that it should be applied with discernment and intelligence.

Itself to cry, do not be ashamed and not harmful. Good to cry from joy, to cry at the funeral, where appropriate and customary. But in other situations where children and women can cry, men do not. Men don’t cry, because for them it is usually pointless, and to be boys, we have a strong and reasonable people.

This is not all know, but for men crying is pointless. For women it’s different: if the woman mount, and she cried, she usually becomes easier, woman crying helps to cope with emotional pain. While the men have all wrong, their grief and their pain are not crying eases, no. Continue reading

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