Morning is the most difficult and challenging for the child. For each it is different. One child wakes up with pleasure, and parting with sleep
occurs instantly. Another long time can not Wake up. It is important
take into account the peculiarities of the physiological development of children.
You are full of worries about the coming day. Time inexorably dictates the tempo of conduct:
make Breakfast, clean up, talk, to remind you in time for
work – a thousand little things, conflicts, expectations. In this kaleidoscope Affairs and
dependencies – your child. To Wake, feed, look after
clothes, to send to school. You almost don’t realize their actions: all
long moved into a skill, a habit. What kind of habits? Did
your child involved in cooking Breakfast? Helped to clear the table? In
what kind of mood he goes to school? What was your reaction to your
last comment? What are your thoughts as you go to work?
Morning or charges you light spirituality, or ukrepliaet you in secret bitterness of resentment, a poignant question, a slight pain.
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Sometimes parents think that the only way to be heard is a scream. Learn how not to succumb to this temptation, and to make raising a child more pleasant and easy.
How often do children ask for something that they cannot: cake for Breakfast, bring a bathing suit on a cold day… And when they receive legitimate “no!”, they are falling off to leeward on the floor, screaming and all the kicking. This is enough to leave the state of moral equilibrium and to yell.
As it turns out that the request for the piece of cake in the morning makes mom or dad to scream and go wild? If you have never yelled at your child, in fact, statistically, you get 10% of parents. And the scream is followed by a sense of guilt, it remains an unpleasant aftertaste and a desire to find a more effective method of education.
Does the screaming child?
According to psychotherapist Alyson Schafer, author of books about the education of young children, on the child the cry of the parent also affects negatively. If this is your main way to influence the child’s behavior, you could instill in your child a sense of self-doubt, lack of trust and sense of security. The raised voice coming from mom or dad, activates emotional response “to defend or escape Continue reading
From year to year, young couples fight and even go because of my parents. And since women are more likely to come to the house of her husband, the main cause of quarrels and disputes becomes the mother-in-law. Often it even before the wedding believes that:
the son is worthy of the best of the party;
it is too early to marry.
the girl can’t cook, not economic, not beautiful, not clever and million any “no”.
And all because she subconsciously perceives future daughter-in-law as a rival. For the same reason mom husband tries to keep a predominant role in the life of the son. Adding fuel to the fire and character-especially if her inherent lack of restraint in speech.
Such prejudiced attitude on the part of the husband’s mother and not daughter-in-law, characteristic of young persons, leads to constant conflicts. Allow them a son, he’s the husband. That he will “put on the spot and a wife, and mother.” And to do it correctly without offending either side. If peace in the family is not possible, the best way to solve the problem is to disperse!
But if you do that you are not yet in force, then we should have the wisdom sister-in-law and to abide by simple rules that will help keep peace in the family.
Relationship with her mother in law: 5 simple rules
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