Don’t be afraid to go to a psychologist or child psychiatrist, deal with him, which negatively affects your child, what is the real ground of his misfortunes. Maybe you have to listen to something not very flattering to your address; it may be that already requires special measures — children’s nervous system vulnerable, and reactions to trauma can be readily fixed. Be careful and attentive!
Be especially careful with is so loved by us by means of life’s hardships — irony.
A white lie or why children lie
Often the reason for consultation with a psychologist or therapist is the loss of trust in the relationship between parents and children. Parents complain: “the Child about what we are not telling, Julita and remained silent or simply lying. ”
From what the child is saved by a lie?
Why are we so afraid of child lie? So strive at all costs to eradicate this defect? When we first notice that the child deceives us? In that moment, when he is not obeyed us, or were outside the framework that we endorse the behavior.
To dissemble and tacking child has whenever these limits become too rigid and cramped.
In other words, the child is lying, when he wants to avoid punishment or censure, when Continue reading
All the time getting their hands in your mouth, chew collar blouse, mommy’s hair is wound on the handle…so small, and has already acquired habits which are useful and good will not name…
What this habit? To understand how it operates the mechanism, imagine this situation. You like to wear clothes with pockets and periodically to keep them in hand. Try to wear clothes without pockets. You will notice that during a certain period of time your hand will automatically reach for my pockets more than once. It was the habit! Definitely not crowned with success, your attempts will become more and more rare and will gradually disappear. But it will take time.
“Foundation” bad habits
The “Foundation” for the origin of habits and the development of stereotype behavior in kids actions become quite harmless. Typically, the first “germs” cause no alarm among parents and does not portend problems in the future.
For example, the baby is 4-5 months aggressively pulls the handle in his mouth, Continue reading
Such a sentence the teacher gives parents a bombshell. “I’m a bad teacher”, “what will others think of me if they knew”, “as ashamed in front of the teacher” – these thoughts fireworks fly in the mind of confused adults, and the reaction is often immediate. The father pulls out a strap, mother in tears begins to appeal to the conscience of the child. And then, before parents apply radical methods of education, for assistance must come pedagogue or psychologist, who will help to answer the eternal Russian question: «Who is to blame and what to do?”
The basis for the theft can serve a variety of reason, we can distinguish the following types of theft:
1. Kleptomania– painful passion of a man for theft. The kleptomaniac desire to steal comes as impulsive as attack. For such a person no matter what to take, it attracts the very act of theft, which relieves emotional stress and internal discomfort, and the satisfaction which he feels at that, akin to narcotic drugs. Things that takes a kleptomaniac, its absolutely not attracted to you, he stashes, sometimes simply forgetting about them. Treated this disease Continue reading