Don’t be afraid to go to a psychologist or child psychiatrist, deal with him, which negatively affects your child, what is the real ground of his misfortunes. Maybe you have to listen to something not very flattering to your address; it may be that already requires special measures — children’s nervous system vulnerable, and reactions to trauma can be readily fixed. Be careful and attentive!
Be especially careful with is so loved by us by means of life’s hardships — irony.
A white lie or why children lie
Often the reason for consultation with a psychologist or therapist is the loss of trust in the relationship between parents and children. Parents complain: “the Child about what we are not telling, Julita and remained silent or simply lying. ”
From what the child is saved by a lie?
Why are we so afraid of child lie? So strive at all costs to eradicate this defect? When we first notice that the child deceives us? In that moment, when he is not obeyed us, or were outside the framework that we endorse the behavior.
To dissemble and tacking child has whenever these limits become too rigid and cramped.
In other words, the child is lying, when he wants to avoid punishment or censure, when Continue reading
All the time getting their hands in your mouth, chew collar blouse, mommy’s hair is wound on the handle…so small, and has already acquired habits which are useful and good will not name…
What this habit? To understand how it operates the mechanism, imagine this situation. You like to wear clothes with pockets and periodically to keep them in hand. Try to wear clothes without pockets. You will notice that during a certain period of time your hand will automatically reach for my pockets more than once. It was the habit! Definitely not crowned with success, your attempts will become more and more rare and will gradually disappear. But it will take time.
“Foundation” bad habits
The “Foundation” for the origin of habits and the development of stereotype behavior in kids actions become quite harmless. Typically, the first “germs” cause no alarm among parents and does not portend problems in the future.
For example, the baby is 4-5 months aggressively pulls the handle in his mouth, Continue reading
Than similar adults and newborns? – Respect is for tiny baby is just as important as for older.
How to talk with the child to his heart trembled with pain, and happily opened up to Your words? Remember your childhood, parental words and expressions that You combed: “shut up or you catch a fly”, “don’t slouch – Brokeback.” They are all here and waiting in the wings. No wonder they say that the word hurts. Imagine all these succinct statements that will get Your grandchildren and great-grandchildren, and the rest of the kids who come after You.
So how to speak that children listened and heard, and rejoiced in the fellowship? There is a wonderful reception, its meaning: talk to your children like it’s Your best friend. You can imagine what my favorite girlfriend will suddenly hear from You: “you stomp like an elephant!”, “you out of his pants belly sticks out”? And family and our most vulnerable men hear it all the time. Meanwhile, to treat a son or daughter, best friend so easy!
During the first hour after birth, a tiny little man look looking for his mother. Bonding, eye contact Continue reading