We educate our children and want them to grow up and such-that and such-that they didn’t make our mistakes, so he was happy. If you look in the dictionary, we see that « Education — it is a purposeful shaping of personality in order to prepare them to participate in public and cultural life in accordance with socio-cultural normative models» . In life education is usually called the impact that we had on the child, and its results.
Actually, even if our influence will be neither deliberate nor conscious, a person from our baby will still be formed. He will grow up like us. «the Child learns what he sees in his home». This law repeal will not be so, if we desire that our child didn’t inherit from us some of the features, you just need to get rid of them ourselves.
But now we will talk about purposeful and conscious education and the various approaches to it . After our success on the path of education is directly dependent on the approach, and accordingly, a method in raising children, we are choosing. And the approach depends on what the goals and objectives of education we set ourselves.
Why can’t something be explained to the child? Why he doesn’t listen and doesn’t listen? Continue reading
Raising a child is a complicated matter. You are convinced of all young parents who dreamed of an obedient child. Kids don’t listen, yells, runs away. What to do? How to raise a child properly? What is the secret of raising a child without punishment – happy little man?
How parents not to sacrifice your life and not to give up their own interests? How to raise the child on his feet, not at the expense of yourself and your life plans? How to educate and not to spoil? Where is the boundary between parental love and acquiescence, connivance? As no punishment to get the son or daughter of obedience? These nuances of raising a child in childhood, the rules of communication with preschool children and school children we now discuss.
The secrets of proper upbringing of children by parents without punishment and scream
1. Install leadership
In the relationship between mother and child should not be ambiguity. Clearly the leader in the relationship with the child should be the mother . and the child – slave and reaching for his mother – and not Vice versa!
If the vast majority of cases, the baby is 3-4 years impose their desires parents, he is spoilt . And before it’s too late, parents should try to correct Continue reading
Beautiful and very lonely
I suddenly woke up and was horrified,
He’s a Mama’s syno-o-okay …”
Every girl at least once in a lifetime encounter with this problem. It’s not even the problem — it’s a huge OOPS!
Blame, unfortunately, in this “misunderstanding” is not only the boys but also their parents, and in particular, mother. Unfortunately or fortunately, I don’t know how to say! The honorary title of – ” sissy “, is closely combined with a negative character trait — boorishness.
Get this “the honorary title of a sissy” boys who grow up in single-parent families or the education of his son lay on the shoulders of mom and dad was uncomfortable (uncomfortable, because differently it is impossible to say, any normal man before you have kids, you should care not only about the financial support of his family, but also about the education of his child) to child-rearing.
Alternatively, the head of the family was a woman, so to say the General, and the man only agreed with all her whims.
Upbringing upbringing, and his mind and character must be present. So to shift the blame on the mother, too, is not correct.
How to distinguish Continue reading