A very important factor that complicates the relationship between parents and children, the inability of parents in a calm and respectful to the child to Express their thoughts. Often adults are not able to calmly and clearly explain to the child what they want from him, i.e., to articulate their expectations. They endlessly criticize him, invite other people to inspire son or daughter what he / she need to be.
The ability to discuss the problem with the child is another important aspect of education art parent. “It is possible, if from early childhood to establish a dialogue and not a monologue, writes Metropolitan Anthony of Sourozh. — And if the child is reported to be only with their ears, and the parents only voice, then nothing happens. But if from early childhood parents showed interest: are you interested to me! Each of your thoughts are interesting to me, all of your experience and all movements of the mind and soul is interesting, I don’t understand. The trouble with parents is that they almost always put themselves in that position: I understand, but you don’t understand. But if parents would say (that’s just the truth): “I do not understand, you explain to me very much could be explained. Because children readily explain what they think, if not oidium that there oke Sadat and prove that they’re wrong.” Continue reading
Many parents are anxious, when you will notice that their children do not write or draw with the right hand and the left, trying to relearn or even turn to doctors.
Parents can understand. Because left-handed isolated from the masses: unusual, as it is known, attracts attention. They in many cases look not with-concealed interest, and it is easy to imagine that such a person feels, forced life to feel unneeded, and sometimes not appropriate the attention of others to himself? But this is a grown man and a kid? Concerned parents often in the presence of the child discuss the evolving perspective, worrying about the child’s future. And from an early age he begins to feel the inferiority complex, trying to hide his left-handedness as goodness knows what sin.
What is handedness? Whether trying to retrain such a child? How is it different from the others?
The adult brain consists of the right and left hemispheres, each of which is not mirroring the other, and a necessary addition to another, as in one and in the other hemisphere are concentrated entirely different centres of human activity. For example, the left is responsible for speech and abstract thinking, right for musical and artistic Continue reading