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Different approaches in parenting

We educate our children and want them to grow up and such-that and such-that they didn’t make our mistakes, so he was happy. If you look in the dictionary, we see that « Education — it is a purposeful shaping of personality in order to prepare them to participate in public and cultural life in accordance with socio-cultural normative models» . In life education is usually called the impact that we had on the child, and its results.

Actually, even if our influence will be neither deliberate nor conscious, a person from our baby will still be formed. He will grow up like us. «the Child learns what he sees in his home». This law repeal will not be so, if we desire that our child didn’t inherit from us some of the features, you just need to get rid of them ourselves.

But now we will talk about purposeful and conscious education and the various approaches to it . After our success on the path of education is directly dependent on the approach, and accordingly, a method in raising children, we are choosing. And the approach depends on what the goals and objectives of education we set ourselves.

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Careful, MOM!

Beautiful and very lonely

I suddenly woke up and was horrified,

He’s a Mama’s syno-o-okay …”

Every girl at least once in a lifetime encounter with this problem. It’s not even the problem — it’s a huge OOPS!

Blame, unfortunately, in this “misunderstanding” is not only the boys but also their parents, and in particular, mother. Unfortunately or fortunately, I don’t know how to say! The honorary title of – ” sissy “, is closely combined with a negative character trait — boorishness.

Get this “the honorary title of a sissy” boys who grow up in single-parent families or the education of his son lay on the shoulders of mom and dad was uncomfortable (uncomfortable, because differently it is impossible to say, any normal man before you have kids, you should care not only about the financial support of his family, but also about the education of his child) to child-rearing.

Alternatively, the head of the family was a woman, so to say the General, and the man only agreed with all her whims.

Upbringing upbringing, and his mind and character must be present. So to shift the blame on the mother, too, is not correct.

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At the head of the kindergarten took adopted son

And his brother she was returned to the orphanage because he was sick

In the village of Troitsk, Kungur district, Perm region) tragedy Gleb Ageeva – kid from the suburbs. who are bullied foster father is a banker and mother, is not discussed and not followed its turbulent UPS and downs. In Troitsk its tragedy: the head of the local kindergarten Inna Smetanina took adopted son is 9-year-old Seryozha. He began to come to school with bruises. Found – dam with the thrash folder. And they didn’t deny it, unlike Moscow bankers.

– Raising the boy Smetanina worked on the following principle: dirty – get! – tells the interrogator Kungur MIA Veronica Melnikova. – Parents admitted on two occasions. The boy threw a pair of muddy boots in the hallway – father slapped a slap that left a bruise. Another time when mother saw footprints on the floor from dirty wet socks. grabbed a plastic bucket and leave them boy. So much so that the handle of the bucket fell off. She grabbed the metal and continued to beat them!

Photo: Inna Smetanina for wet and dirty clothes to beat adopted son.

“Not going home – again!”

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