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Children’s lies – a method of self-defense

Don’t be afraid to go to a psychologist or child psychiatrist, deal with him, which negatively affects your child, what is the real ground of his misfortunes. Maybe you have to listen to something not very flattering to your address; it may be that already requires special measures — children’s nervous system vulnerable, and reactions to trauma can be readily fixed. Be careful and attentive!

Be especially careful with is so loved by us by means of life’s hardships — irony.

A white lie or why children lie

Often the reason for consultation with a psychologist or therapist is the loss of trust in the relationship between parents and children. Parents complain: “the Child about what we are not telling, Julita and remained silent or simply lying. ”

From what the child is saved by a lie?

Why are we so afraid of child lie? So strive at all costs to eradicate this defect? When we first notice that the child deceives us? In that moment, when he is not obeyed us, or were outside the framework that we endorse the behavior.

To dissemble and tacking child has whenever these limits become too rigid and cramped.

In other words, the child is lying, when he wants to avoid punishment or censure, when Continue reading

Collection of bad habits.

All the time getting their hands in your mouth, chew collar blouse, mommy’s hair is wound on the handle…so small, and has already acquired habits which are useful and good will not name…

What this habit? To understand how it operates the mechanism, imagine this situation. You like to wear clothes with pockets and periodically to keep them in hand. Try to wear clothes without pockets. You will notice that during a certain period of time your hand will automatically reach for my pockets more than once. It was the habit! Definitely not crowned with success, your attempts will become more and more rare and will gradually disappear. But it will take time.

“Foundation” bad habits

The “Foundation” for the origin of habits and the development of stereotype behavior in kids actions become quite harmless. Typically, the first “germs” cause no alarm among parents and does not portend problems in the future.

For example, the baby is 4-5 months aggressively pulls the handle in his mouth, Continue reading

The family Influence on the formation of a child

A family is a special social environment. There are rules and norms of behavior, there may be a hierarchy within the family, child finds their first role models, sees the first people’s reactions to their actions. Not having any social or personal experience, the child is unable to assess either their behavior or the existence of personal qualities of others. Nowadays more and more scientists, teachers, psychologists admit that all that is in the child – both good and bad – he takes from childhood. The child will grow, and formed his personality, moral values, moral standards will remain. They will be guided by an adult, going through the journey of life, sometimes making hard choices. The impressions received in childhood, sometimes further define the work of man, his way of life after the family transmits and cultural traditions, the experience of predecessors, which were developed over many years.

The family influence on the formation of a child is recognized by many educators, psychologists, psychotherapists, Psychoneurology. The problems of the family and family education interested people since ancient times. Continue reading

Child lives in each.
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Problems arise either falling asleep because of various abnormalities, either because of violation of the mode of the day, rest and labor. Rational eating and not sick people, leading an…

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How to wean the child to lie?
All parents want their child up decent and from an early age begin to raise the baby and explain that lying is bad. But anyway, sooner or later, the child…

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