How to raise a child independent personality, extraordinary, purposeful and holistic just? Education of child labour continuous and very complex. Having two sons eight and ten years old, I regularly look for different information on this topic.
All parents and educators know that a child learn best from someone else’s example. First and foremost, such as the parents themselves. That is, if the father says to the son: “My hands before eating”, and he comes home from work, don’t do this, no matter how much the baby is not scolded, he will always have a subconscious desire to do as a father. There is a conflict in the education – mismatch between requested and actual. And this disparity will lead to misunderstanding and resistance.
Of course, each family has their own ideas about parenting. But interesting to see what practices exist in education. Recently read the nine commandments of raising a child from the “Home encyclopedia”. It’s pretty interesting thoughts, I suggest you to pay attention to them.
9 commandments of raising a child. A note to parents
1. Don’t expect your child to be like you. Or – as you want. Education should help him not become you, and themselves.
2. Do not ask the child to pay for everything you do for him: you gave him life, how can he repay you? He will give life to another, one – third: this is an irreversible law of gratitude.
3. In the process of education don’t take it out on the child their grievances to old age is not bitter bread, because what you sow, so shall ascend. Continue reading
The game is a serious lesson for the child . Watching Datastream with blocks or playing in the plane, or learn to jump through the rope, adults think that getproto have fun and that the game has nothing to do with the serious occupations of the type of cooking lessons and, later, work. It is a misconception instilled in us from childhood when we were taught that the game is fun, preparing homework is a responsibility, and the work is boring and hard necessity. When a child is transferring a rattle from one hand to another, or when learning to crawl up the stairs, or pushing blocks, pretending it’s a train, he is busy with the hard work he is exploring the world. He is preparing for useful work in society as well as students learn in College, preparing for future careers. Child likes to play not because they are easy, but because it’s hard. Every minute of every day descremada to grasp more and more difficult activities. They want to learn how to do all the things other kids adults.
Mother of year-old child complains that he doesn’t want to play with the cubes, and wants to put pots and pans into one another. Continue reading